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The precious Stone

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The precious StoneA wise woman who was traveling in the mountains found a precious stone in a stream. The next day she met another traveler who was hungry, and the wise woman opened her bag to share her food. The hungry traveler saw the precious stone & asked the woman to give it to him. She did so without hesitation.

The traveler left, rejoicing his good fortune. He knew the stone was worth enough to give him security for a lifetime. But a few days later he came back to return the stone to the wise woman. “I’ve been thinking,” He said, “I know how valuable the stone is, but I give it back in the hope that you can give me something even more precious: Give me what you have within you that enabled you to give me the stone.”

Wisdom is in giving selflessly what pleases the other because in that lies true happiness and deep sense of contentment. For any relationship to succeed, this is the key. Radhanath Swami goes a step further to conclude that it is worth going through tears to give pleasure to others. Because, to the degree our actions are selfish, it cannot satisfy the heart. A selfless act is that in which we are truly giving ourselves for the object of our love.

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  1. September 3, 2012

    Aishwarya

    “Give me what you have within you that enabled you to give me the stone.”-a prayer to be meditated on.

  2. September 4, 2012

    Udisha

    True Wisdom is in remaining selfless….! The women was surely wise…

  3. September 4, 2012

    Prajakta Timbe

    Selfless attitude gives pleasure to others.H.H.Radhanath maharaj always give their knowledge,mercy to all devotees without keeping anything with him.Thank you very much maharaj.

  4. September 4, 2012

    Chandrika

    Selflessness can also be interpreted as “thinking of myself less but not thinking less of myself”. Something that we can all contemplate on.

  5. September 4, 2012

    rajendra

    very useful in day to day life

  6. September 4, 2012

    Citra Gopi DD

    Although acting on selfish impulses feels good initially but it leaves us feeling empty and unsatisfied.

  7. September 5, 2012

    Vidya Patham

    Thank you Maharaj for sharing with us these lofty ideals which encourage us to at least attempt to practice them in our lives.

  8. September 5, 2012

    nandkishor das

    trunadapi sunichena ,amanina manadena,selfess service is success of life

  9. September 6, 2012

    Raj

    It takes us out of our comfort zones when we act selflessly, allowing us to grow.

  10. September 6, 2012

    Rajaruban

    One should desire strongly to reach a higher level of selflessness in order to be able to truly give ourselves to the object of our love.

  11. September 8, 2012

    Rathushan

    Selfless service is admired by every individual around the globe.

  12. September 9, 2012

    Y.Raja Shekar

    HH Radhanath Swami speaks through realisation to touch the hearts of every reader of this article. ‘In giving we receive’. Says HH Radhanath Swami at some other place.

  13. September 16, 2012

    nandkishor das

    Wisdom is in giving selflessly what pleases the other

  14. September 18, 2012

    Ravi Garg

    Selflessness makes relationships strong………

  15. September 18, 2012

    Raj

    The soul is constantly yearning for a selfless relationship despite what we see around us.

  16. September 19, 2012

    shailesh

    If we really want to give someone then that ‘s wisdom and not the jewels or stones ,very nicely explained by Radhanath Maharaj ! Hare Krsna !

  17. September 20, 2012

    niranjan

    Really important the precious things of our life!!

  18. September 21, 2012

    amit

    very beautifuly explained with vivd examples thank u very much.

  19. September 21, 2012

    swathi .k

    How selfless service gives satisfaction to the heart. It is precious than anything else

  20. September 23, 2012

    sunil rathi

    Very nicely explained by Maharaj – service means sacrifice.

  21. September 24, 2012

    Sahil Khosla

    Being selfless gives true joy to heart. Maharaj is himself personification of selflessness.

  22. October 4, 2012

    MRS SMITA SANJAY RAJADHYAKSHA

    purity of soul which one has to lead a peacefullife chanting name of god.

  23. October 4, 2012

    MRS SMITA SANJAY RAJADHYAKSHA

    be helpful and kind to others god will love you.

  24. October 4, 2012

    MRS SMITA SANJAY RAJADHYAKSHA

    be always content with full of life that what we see all beautiful things are created by god is for all and always be devotional with god. then he will be with you always what else you want in life.nothing than that then just enjoy life.

  25. January 21, 2013

    sumit

    Being selfless that and ready to give your self for the sake of other require real patients and tolerance

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