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Mango Loving Husband

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Mango Loving HusbandOnce there was a man who liked to eat mangoes. One day he decided to get the sweetest mango available, from the very top of the tree. Mangoes which are most exposed to the sun are the sweetest. So he climbed up to the top, where the branches were thin. He managed to pick up a few sweet reddish fruits, but in attempting to go back down, he slipped and started falling towards the ground.

Fortunately, he caught a branch as he was falling and remained helplessly hanging on the tree. Then he started to call nearby villagers for help. They immediately came with a ladder and sticks, but could do little to help him.

Then after some time his wife arrived. People were very curious as to what she would do. The wife was silent for a minute and then picked up a stone, and threw it, hitting the hanging husband.

Everybody was surprised. Hanging mango lover started to shout, “What are you doing?! Are you crazy? Do you want me to break my neck?”

His wife was silent. Then again, she took a stone and threw it so that it hit her husband in the tree. The man (the husband) was furious, “If I could just come down, I would show you…!” That’s what everybody wanted, that he comes down, but how?

Now everybody was tense, what would happen next! Some wanted to chastise the wife, but they didn’t. The wife picked up another stone and threw it again at the man, even more forcefully. Now the man in the tree completely flipped out and developed a great determination to come down and get revenge. He then used all of his skill and strength and somehow managed to reach the branches which were safe enough for him to climb down, and he made it!
Everybody was amazed.

“Where is my wife?” – exclaimed the rescued man.
“Oh, she is wise, so she didn’t wait for you to beat him,” said the villagers.”I will really smash her completely when I get hold of her,” said the man.
“Hey, wait a minute, she is the only one who helped you, she is the one who provoked you, who induced you to help yourself,” said one of the villagers.

Mango freak stopped for a second, thought a little and admitted, “Yes, all your good intentions and compassion didn’t help me, but my beloved wife expertly induced me to do my best and save myself, I should be thankful rather than angry.”

So this is an instructive story. A real spouse helps you, sometimes in strange ways, to take initiatives in your life.

 

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  1. August 28, 2012

    Prajakta Timbe

    Really very instructive story.Thanks for sharing it.

  2. August 30, 2012

    Rakeshh Chandrra

    This is very instructive story.

  3. September 5, 2012

    Kalpana Kulkarni

    Nice story! But we have to understand the intention behind the actions of our loved ones. They may seem strange but done for our benefit.

  4. September 5, 2012

    Ramya

    Funny story but quite interesting!

  5. September 5, 2012

    Y.Raja Shekar

    HH Radhanath Swami says, the spiritual master is sometimes acts like a thunder bolt and sometimes acts like a soft rose all in the benefit of the disciples. This story also conveys very nicely the same meaning.

  6. September 7, 2012

    Suresh

    Yes Sometime God helpe in Strange ways

  7. September 8, 2012

    Chandrika

    What a wife – she seems to know how to use his anger to save his life!

  8. September 14, 2012

    Citra Gopi DD

    A humorous story with a deep message – a great story to share!

  9. September 14, 2012

    Rajeev

    Amazing story and a great takeaway for us. Thank you for sharing.

  10. September 14, 2012

    Anil Timbe

    :) this story is like suger coted pill. Nice message conved in very interesting way. Thanks for sharing.

  11. September 16, 2012

    Ravi Garg

    Very intelligent wife who knew how to use anger constructively……….a true person knows the strenghts & weaknesses of his/her partner…..

  12. September 18, 2012

    Advay Pathak

    Amazing article; one must be really have patience and tolerance in order to be successful in Family life.

  13. September 19, 2012

    Manasa

    Good lesson from this story! Real spouse always helps us but sometimes in strange ways, to take initiatives in your life. Thanks for sharing

  14. September 20, 2012

    Sharath HP

    Another lesson to learn –
    Everyone is prakriti by nature and Krishna is the only real Purusha (‘The Enjoyer’)
    He, sometimes in strange ways puts His devotees in a precarious situation so that they can develop determination and forge ahead in their path to perfection… ys

  15. September 21, 2012

    SAhil Khosla

    Hare Krishna
    Indeed an interesteing story woth a moral so very practical and crucial but still difficult to understand. The story conveys it so nicely that our spouse knows our strength better than us and help us in putting them to best use in right situations.
    Thanks for sharing

  16. January 25, 2013

    Deepak K

    Amazing story..very nice lesson. Thank you.
    HH Radhanath Swami Maharaj ki Jai!!!

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